Individual Therapy for Relationship Issues

Most people think of individual therapy as a way to deal with personal problems or issues. While this is certainly true, individual therapy can also be a powerful tool for improving your relationship with your partner. In fact, individual therapy can be one of the most effective ways to resolve conflicts and improve communication.

Sometimes people refuse to go to therapy with the person they love. There can be many reasons why they refuse. Everything from denial to embarrassment. Their refusal can also stem from a lack of trust or faith in therapy. They may feel that it won’t do any good or that their problems are too big to solve.

You can try forcing them to go to therapy against their will. Most of the time that will end with a healing outcome. 

You could just throw your hands up in the air and give up. Feeling hopeless is understandable, but it’s not a feeling we want driving the bus. .

Those are not your only two options.

Even if both partners refuse to go to therapy together, individual therapy can still help improve the relationship. In fact, individual therapy is often recommended for couples who are struggling to resolve conflicts.

One of the main benefits of individual therapy is that it can help you to explore your own personal issues and dynamics that might be affecting your relationship.

Here are a few of the ways individual therapy can help your relationship:

Better Communication Skills

One of the main problems in many relationships is poor communication. Individual therapy can help you to learn better communication skills.

Good communication skills do not involve only expressing your own thoughts and feelings, but also having good listening skills. Actively listening to your partner and trying to understand them can go a long way towards any conflict resolution.

You Will Fight Fair

In any relationship, there will be disagreements. How you handle those disagreements can go a long way in determining whether or not your relationship will last.

One of the things that individual therapy can help you with is learning how to fight fair. This means that you argue in a constructive way and do not resort to name-calling, blaming, or trying to coerce the other. .

You Are Happier

Individual therapy can also help to make you a happier person. When you are happier, your relationships are likely to benefit too.

Being happy does not mean that you will never have any problems in your relationship. However, it does mean that you will be more equipped to handle those problems in a constructive way.

You Become a Better Parent

If you are considering having children or already have them, individual therapy can help you to become a better parent.

Being a good parent is not only about providing for your child’s physical needs, but also their emotional needs. Individual therapy can help you to learn how to be a more emotionally present parent and how to deal with any emotional issues that might arise.

You Can Share Techniques With Your Spouse

If your partner is unwilling to go to therapy with you, you can still get a lot out of individual therapy. In fact, you might be able to share some of the techniques that you learned in therapy with them.

This can help to improve communication and resolve conflicts in a more constructive way.

Your Partner May Change Their Mind

There is no guarantee that your partner will change their mind about going to therapy, but it is possible.

If they see how much individual therapy has helped you and how it has made you a happier, more balanced person, they may be more willing to give it a try.

Focus on You

Individual therapy can be an extremely effective way to improve your relationship with your partner. Even if they are unwilling to go to therapy with you, individual therapy can still help. Therapy can help you to explore your own personal issues and dynamics that might be affecting your relationship. It can also provide a safe space for you and your partner to discuss any problems or concerns that you might have. 

Learn more about our individual therapy and couples counseling options.

Our fees are between $200-$400 for 50 minutes, depending on your counselor. We do not accept insurance, meaning we are not "in-network" with any health plans.
However, many of our clients submit claims to their out-of-network health insurance and receive 40-60% reimbursement.